Tia
I’ve been lucky enough to be invited to give a short talk for you on trauma, triggers, and BDSM.
My name is Tia, and I’ve been living with my wonderful Master for the past five years. We live as close to 24/7 as possible, balancing the dynamic with a busy life filled with kids, work, and packed lunches.
My talk will explore both the mind and the body — triggers, traumas, and how they intersect with BDSM.
Can trauma be a part of play?
Is it dangerous to play with someone who carries emotional baggage?
What happens if you accidentally trigger something in your submissive that you didn’t know was there?
And what do you do if you’re the submissive and it happens to you?
How much do childhood experiences or ex-partners affect our play? Can some of those memories be brought into the scene — while others are best left behind?
We’ll dive into all that and more.
I promise it won’t be heavy or depressing — just real, useful, and hopefully inspiring.
See you there?
Jeg har været så heldig at skulle lave et lille oplæg til jer om traumaer, triggers og bdsm.
Mit navn er Tia og jeg lever på 5 år sammen med min skønne master, vi lever så tæt på 24/7 som det kan lade sig gøre i en travl hverdag med børn, arbejde og madpakker.
Mit oplæg handler om psyken og fysikken, om triggers, traumer og bdsm. Kan man bruge dem i legen? Er det farligt at lege med en der har en tung bagage?
Hvad gør man når man ved et uheld får trigget noget i sin bund, man ikke vidste de kæmpede med? Hvad gør man som bund når det sker? Hvad med barndommen og ex-kæresterne, kan de fylde i legen? Hvordan inddrager vi nogle erfaringer og begraver andre?
Alt det og meget mere skal vi dykke ned i. Jeg lover det ikke bliver trist og tungt. ses vi?