John Pendal

John Pendal

BDSM Educator
My name’s John (pronouns he/ him) and I live on the South Coast of England. Been in the fetish community since 1995. Things stepped up a gear when I became the 25th, (and to date only British), winner of the International Mr Leather contest in Chicago back in May 2003 and attended leather and fetish events around the world full time for a year. Kink Con Presenter 2022 Kink Con Presenter 2023 Kink Con Presenter 2024 Kink Con Presenter 2025

This class is about how you can put yourself back together after something has gone wrong in your kink life. How do you rebuild trust with yourself, new play partners and the community? We will look at how to get back in touch with your body and work out what “safety” means to you, the first steps back into play and what to look for, and how to navigate a community that you now see in a new light. This is a class for Tops, bottoms, and anyone who’s had a traumatic experience.